[Don’t tell Yato that. He might take you seriously about the prosperity thing and he’ll never stop with the emojis...]
Really important. I guess if you ask other shinki or gods they would rank it highly too, but I emphasize it so much because it was a big problem that held both me and my god back for a long time.
I can’t imagine Hana-san giving you trouble but- are you having trouble with her? Or is it something else? [She seemed almost eerily complacent, after all. It must be something else.]
I mean, i do think i made a mistake, but he was upset from the beginning. He doesn't like the idea of being a shinki very much. He would have hated any of us.
[He's hearing "I didn't do it but I might have done it." >.> ... Upset from the start though. damnit that sounds familiar]
Worst-case scenario you can revoke his name and he won't be your shinki anymore. But it might be worth it to see if you can work it out, somehow? You know, one of those diamond in the rough things?
i don't want to do that!!! that's like giving up on him, isn't it? i'm not going to do that!
Oh, well, he attacked me as soon as i said hello to him. And he hit me a few times. [he's been wanting to whine about this to someone so badly] And he's angry all the time, and he's kind of afraid of me. So actually i haven't seen him much today. i think he's avoiding me...
[Ren doesn't actually know most of what Hibari's been up to, though, so he's a whole lot more disagreeable than all that.]
but some of that is my fault, so i really do want to try to work things out.
[... What the hell planet is your shinki from, man? (Which is actually a more literal question now, too, with people being from... other worlds and all...)]
I'm seriously glad to hear you don't want to give up on him.
All you said was 'hello' and he hit you? What do you think is 'your fault'? Hasn't he been stinging you? All that anger and fear must be at least making you uncomfortable.
Yah, no kidding that would make him upset. I’ve been there myself.
It’s probably good that he’s not stinging you, but really all it means is that whatever he’s been doing, he is doing believing he’s right, without a guilty conscience.
Maybe he does just need time to calm down, and maybe he needs someone to hit some sense into him really hard. I hope it’s not the latter. It sucks for everyone involved.
oh. that could be dangerous too. i'll keep an eye out for that.
i don't think any amount of hitting will change his mind on anything except for whether or not he's found a worthy opponent. he likes fighting more than i do.
Yah, more or less we get along now. [It just took some doing is all.] I still fight with him a lot, but it sounds like a different kind of fighting than what you're facing. Probably.
maybe nothing. i just know how dangerous that kind of thinking can be, believing you're in the right no matter what. i still make the mistake sometimes myself. i don't want to see anyone else making it.
that's good! i'm glad you were able to make up! (ノ´ヮ´)ノ*:・゚✧
oh, maybe. he's a lot more volatile than i used to be, but maybe if i think about what i wish someone had said to me...
but i do feel a little better about everything now that i've talked to you about it! a work in progress is better than nothing, so if you could do that, maybe we can too!
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Date: 2016-04-26 08:57 am (UTC)From:Really important.
I guess if you ask other shinki or gods they would rank it highly too, but I emphasize it so much because it was a big problem that held both me and my god back for a long time.
I can’t imagine Hana-san giving you trouble but- are you having trouble with her? Or is it something else? [She seemed almost eerily complacent, after all. It must be something else.]
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Date: 2016-04-26 09:36 am (UTC)From:she never gave me any trouble.
But Hana had to leave for some reason, and the shinki I have now hates me.
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Date: 2016-04-26 09:41 am (UTC)From:But usually people don't hate someone else without a reason. So what happened?
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Date: 2016-04-26 10:14 am (UTC)From:It wasn't only me! o(TヘTo)
I mean, i do think i made a mistake, but he was upset from the beginning. He doesn't like the idea of being a shinki very much. He would have hated any of us.
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Date: 2016-04-26 10:40 am (UTC)From:...
Upset from the start though.
damnit that sounds familiar]Worst-case scenario you can revoke his name and he won't be your shinki anymore.
But it might be worth it to see if you can work it out, somehow? You know, one of those diamond in the rough things?
How disagreeable is he?
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Date: 2016-04-26 11:15 am (UTC)From:i don't want to do that!!! that's like giving up on him, isn't it? i'm not going to do that!
Oh, well, he attacked me as soon as i said hello to him. And he hit me a few times. [he's been wanting to whine about this to someone so badly] And he's angry all the time, and he's kind of afraid of me. So actually i haven't seen him much today. i think he's avoiding me...
[Ren doesn't actually know most of what Hibari's been up to, though, so he's a whole lot more disagreeable than all that.]
but some of that is my fault, so i really do want to try to work things out.
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Date: 2016-04-26 11:50 am (UTC)From:I'm seriously glad to hear you don't want to give up on him.
All you said was 'hello' and he hit you? What do you think is 'your fault'?
Hasn't he been stinging you? All that anger and fear must be at least making you uncomfortable.
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Date: 2016-04-26 08:10 pm (UTC)From:(◞‸◟;)
i don't think he has been. that's good isn't it?
it's uncomfortable and i wish he would stop but i'm not sure how to do that. maybe he just needs time to calm down?
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Date: 2016-04-28 03:22 pm (UTC)From:It’s probably good that he’s not stinging you, but really all it means is that whatever he’s been doing, he is doing believing he’s right, without a guilty conscience.
Maybe he does just need time to calm down, and maybe he needs someone to hit some sense into him really hard. I hope it’s not the latter. It sucks for everyone involved.
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Date: 2016-05-02 03:48 am (UTC)From:i don't think any amount of hitting will change his mind on anything except for whether or not he's found a worthy opponent. he likes fighting more than i do.
do you get along with your god now?
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Date: 2016-05-02 03:28 pm (UTC)From:Yah, more or less we get along now. [It just took some doing is all.] I still fight with him a lot, but it sounds like a different kind of fighting than what you're facing. Probably.
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Date: 2016-05-03 01:55 am (UTC)From:maybe nothing. i just know how dangerous that kind of thinking can be, believing you're in the right no matter what. i still make the mistake sometimes myself. i don't want to see anyone else making it.
that's good! i'm glad you were able to make up!
(ノ´ヮ´)ノ*:・゚✧
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Date: 2016-05-04 11:54 am (UTC)From:But at least it sounds like Suzugamori-sama knows what he's in for.]
Maybe you'll know how to best get through to him after all then.
Hah, well, it's still a work in progress. But it's better.
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Date: 2016-05-07 05:40 am (UTC)From:but i do feel a little better about everything now that i've talked to you about it! a work in progress is better than nothing, so if you could do that, maybe we can too!
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Date: 2016-05-13 09:00 am (UTC)From:Although that mindset hasn't quite been working out for Yukine as he's been talking to Hibari...]I'm glad I could help. Hopefully you guys will connect somehow.
By the way, what's his name? [That information might come in handy later if he starts hearing about this guy making trouble.]
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Date: 2016-05-13 11:25 am (UTC)From:[and then about five seconds later:]
oh but if you do talk to him, please don't mention i talked to you because i don't think he'd like that much...
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Date: 2016-05-13 02:25 pm (UTC)From:No problem.